I never made an excuse. And neither do I care if you think I'm a lard arse. Being skinny is not "better" nor does it make anyone more awesome than anyone else. I didnt mention it but I lived om takeaways for over 3 months when I moved out. So go figure. The important thing, at least if I was interested in losing weight, would be to admit why I'm larger than average.
This was again mentioned in my last post so I'm not making excuses.
And what exactly is wrong with reading up on things? Or are one you one of these boneheads who think you know everything about something (lets take sex, or female anatomy, erogenous zones, etc). Education is power and there is nout wrong with that. I am not a club/club/bar go-oer, I don't drink at all. Neither am I interested in the club bunnies you get. There is nothing smart or attractive about a wasted girl, so I wouldn't pick up a girl from a place such as that anyway. I've only really had 2 and a half girlfriends (the third one was "complicated") but each one of those lasted for over a year. So you were saying about mingling?
Neither do I agree with using intoxication as an excuse for being being a ****, projecting your own insecurities on others who don't care about muscles or bodyweight. The difference between gently poking fun at you being a little tubby and you going "har har you are fat" is quite large.
Anyway the people who are happy with their body, large, small, black, blue...these are the people who are truly happy with themselves, and your mental health can do wonders for your lifespan....but I suppose that's for another thread, you know the whole "it's ok to be a ****, cheat on you spouse or be violent if you're drunk" thing.
Very fat is a bit unfair (not to mention rather rude actually you mosher).
I was alright back then. A bit tubby, but not fat! How do you know I had finished puberty? I told you to stop trying to see me naked.
I've put alot of weight on since moving out and living on takeaways, and mainly office based job doesn't help. But the fact is I eat too much of the wrong stuff. So I'm aware of it, which is the key. No denial. But while I do wish I wasn't so rounded, this is myself and I think it's important to be happy with who you are.
Most girls don't need a guy with stamina. Only about 50% of women can orgasm from penetration alone, and out of those 50%, about 60% can do so regularly. Where as 86% require direct stimulation of le clitoris and out of those 86%, something like 90% can orgasm regularly. So as long as you're good with your hands and mouth there's no problem in terms of her satisfaction. Additionally on an anonymous survey of women in some American sex-health show/book club thing (mainly women aged 21-40), these women thought the best part of sex was the foreplay, reaching climax was actually quite far down the list! From memory it was foreplay, cuddling, climax then something else. Was an interesting read.
Also, just because you are fat does not mean you are unfit or lack stamina. There is no direct correlation between weight and cardiovascular effectiveness. Although in my case I am quite unfit, but I don't care. Also the main problem with "stamina" in bed isn't the physical activity, it's that most guys come too quickly. I don't have that problem. I would say ask your sister but that would be both immature and unfair on your sister.
You'd be surprised how many girls don't care about how buff a guy is! A "sexy" guy who is a complete wanker (seems to be a direct correlation in looks and twat-factor) may get first dibs in terms of talking to a girl, but it's the nice guy, the one who won't slag them off, cheat, have drunken binges, is quiet and respectful (so normally the fat(ter)/ugly(er) ones) that will be the one to end up talking to her and actually having a perhaps meaningful relationship. It just takes a bit longer. Not a problem for me personally since I never have sex on a first date sort of thing, so wouldn't be picking up girls like that anyway. If a girl was only with me because I was sexy, or if that was a major factor, I wouldn't want that anyway.
I don't think Becky is calling you heartless because you can't afford to donate. I see no comments directly at you, just at the forum populous in general. If you want to take it personally that's your call. And sorry I spelt your name incorrectly while multi-tasking and talking on the phone at the time. I'm glad you were able to notice that and correct my MONUMENTAL mistake and assert your awesomeness upon us all.
JPearce, I am on £15,000 a year. I have a car which costs me £2200 a year to insure. I have my own flat, I have £10,000 of finance against my name, and yet I could find money to donate £8 a month to NSPCC. I do get some help from my parents but this is normally a bit of shopping here and there, I am still self supporting and buy most of my own food.
Becky isn't expecting anyone to cough up, she was merely asking. And she's disappointed that not one person has donated anything, but plenty of people have used the thrower of flames in her general direction. She is quite angry about this which is probably fuelling her fire making her aggressive but she was pushed halfway
Most charities ask for like £2-10 a month. So that's like 50p-£2.50 a week. Seriously telling me the fact I pay 22% of my income away on tax, then council TAX, then fuel TAX, then road fund license TAX, then value added TAX on top of stamp duty TAX.....and then can't afford that added "stress"? I was actually donating to the NPSCC for about 8 months... I stopped recently but starting again in December.
If I was taxed less I would donate no more or no less. But that's just me. Anyway it wasn't a Guardian. I don't even read newspapers, they are full of corruption and they are never the overall picture.
Besides my post did not mention bands, simply said that tax is a necessary part of the functionality of the country. I mean look at France, their top earners ASKED to be paid more tax....
Exactly, without taxes other issues such as "the country has no money to pay police, doctors and nurses, local councils, build roads, help subsidize housing...and basically everything else.
Backy (see what I did there) is only trying to raise money for a good cause. Now whether you guys want to donate or not is your choice but really there aren't half some arrogant dicks about.
Backy (haha) is not asking for donations for her quitting smoking. She is asking for donations for a CHARITY for which she is doing something for (quite like when an associate at work will ask for some money for zip-lining across a river or something.
When normally you would say "sure here's £5" for something that they will enjoy doing, you are doing the same but instead of going "WOOOHOOO" or "WEEEEE", Backy will be going "ARGH" as she tears her hair and arms off from the cravings. So I don't see why some of the arsey people on this forum are getting all...arsey?
I would donate but unfortunately have NO money at all (-£298.78 in my bank if you want to know). Goodluck with the quitting and the donating.
So you would bet your life that no-one posted the comment on your phone? I can do so much without people realising, all you need to do is keep a straight face and don't bring to attention what you've done.
Is it checked by default? Could have logged in at a friends house or at school/work or something.
If someone I know has left facebook logged in I will post a message saying how they are gay or how they have a crush on "first girl i see in their contact list".
I agree smaller words etc are fine for non-important sites but don't use a crappy password then complain when someone "hacks" you.
ps he probably wasn't hacked, his friend either saw him type in the password/guessed it or he logged in with the "oh please remember me" (if facebook has that, I don't use it so hey).
See MadCatX's post. The very fact you say "oh it's a word which makes sense followed by 3 numbers" shows poor security and means that it's probably quite easy to actually get your password...friend watching over your shoulder. I am into IT Security (I'm not a master but have a good understanding of these kind of "hacks) and a dictionary word followed by 3 numbers is very easy to crack, a matter of hours for a good home PC with cracking software.